Expectations -
Most of life's wounds have roots in sincere expectations about the
future that were dashed on the rocks in a storm. We've all been there.
Kings must have the ability to land on their feet when things don't go
their way. First let's examine the concept of "knowing the future."
The
rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat
against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its
foundation on the rock. Matt 7:25 NIV
As Christians we are prone to think that God has
the future under control and everything is all mapped out. Knowing the
future is like knowing His will and we build a set of expectations
around our beliefs about what the future holds - minus the storms. The
premise is that God knows the future and, if we're in tune with Him,
understand the Bible, etc., we can know the future too. Armed with that
premise we launch investments, businesses and churches with a great deal
of confidence that we are safely within the will of God and nothing can
go wrong.
The only flaw in our thought process (above) is
that it hasn't always worked in the past and most of us carry some level
of fear that something could go wrong (like it did before). So we add
one thing to our little theological recipe for life. We try to prevent
the pain of missed expectations by avoiding "or ignoring" the risk of
loss. Instead of taking steps to make make the gains, we live to avoid
the losses. So, we are generally confident in God's goodness and
believe things will go right. However, having felt the pain of
expectations unfulfilled, we are specifically inclined to fear
new endeavors that represent risk. We deal with our fear of risk by
pretending it's not there! We think proceeding in the face of risk is
faith. Strangely, this dynamic starts to sound like unbelief. The things
we fear most start to happen to us.
What I
feared has come upon me; what I dreaded has happened to me.
Job 3:25 NIV
Where is the risk highest?
It can be when Christians do business together that real risk is most
often neglected under the guise of "faith." Our spirit-led promptings
are usually legitimate. Guidance is general in nature because God
expects us to be stewards of our assets and cash flow. It's our job to
think through the details and make wise decisions that account for the
risks.... "wise as serpents and harmless as doves" is Jesus advice for
marketplace ministry!
Behold,
I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore
wise as serpents, and harmless as doves. Matt 10:16 KJV
What Does Work?
- Having a sound, Bible-based concept of God makes risk a lot simpler.
God does have a plan for the future. Jesus is coming back, Heaven is
real... so is Hell for that matter. Mankind will face judgment and
rewards in the end. That being said, God doesn't micromanage the details
of our future. In fact, he grieves with us when things go wrong. He is
not an impersonal "force." Our God is dynamic, alive, and personal; He
communicates, rejoices, gets angry, and adjusts His course. Servants are
a little more comfortable with a less personal God. Friends like the
interaction. We all go through a maturing process from servants that
just obey, to friends that ask for their heart's desire in fellowship
with the Father (Jn 15:15). We grow in our awareness of how personal God
really is. He has invited us to help plan our own future.
Although we have a destiny, our future is not
completely scripted by God. We have many choices and many relational
encounters with God as we face everything life brings us. Understanding
the true nature of God and life brings us to this point: We are firm in
our resolve and ultimate direction but we leave expectations flexible
regarding exactly how we'll arrive at our destination (or destiny).
Risk is Real -
The flaw in the thinking of many Christians is that God will protect us
from risk. We take leaps of faith into the unknown and pray that nothing
will go wrong. Then, when something goes south we are stuck; either
blaming God or ourselves for the failure (both are bad choices). The
Bible is full of stories of God's miraculous intervention. He still does
miracles all the time. However, managing your risk by expecting God to
provide a miracle every time a storm comes is wrong practically and
theologically.
What if we stopped pretending there is no risk?
What if we admit the future is open and it's our job to work with God to
shape it according to His purposes? What if our family and business
plans accounted for all the things that could go wrong (instead of
keeping all those fears hidden in a closet)?
Before you face your next "storm," realize that you
are a King working with the King of Kings. You not only share the
setbacks, you chat about the options to resurrect the situation so that
God is glorified and the Kingdom is built. If we hit a home run, God is
glorified and the Kingdom is built. Whether it's the easy way or the
hard way we are still walking with Jesus (the rock) and we'll still
arrive at the same destiny. Pretty cool isn't it?
Here's reality
- We Kings live in real-world warfare but we operate in the power of the
Holy Spirit. Spiritual attack is magnified because of the warfare, but
our fruitfulness and opportunities are magnified even more because of
His power that works so mightily in us.
Now to
Him who is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond all that we ask or
think, according to the power that works within us Eph 3:20
NASB
To this
end I labor, struggling with all his energy, which so powerfully
works in me. Col 1:29 NIV
Strong Backbones, Flexible
Expectations - Right now we see Kings experiencing the highs
and the lows. Some are in storms or under attack while, on other fronts,
there are great victories. We (and God) don't control where the enemy
may strike or what decisions those around us will make. Stuff happens...
things change! Our resolve is like steel but our plans and expectations
are very flexible. The reason God calls us over comers is because there
are
plenty of things to overcome.
Millard Fuller is a great example -
See the pod cast or
audio only of his interview on CBN.
This newsletter and
No Holding Back were prompted by a book
Dan Gaub
recommended. Trading in the Zone by Mark Douglas helped me
understand how our inner healing issues can bias business decisions.
Life is an adventure. People are a blessing.
God is amazing. We're winning.