Leadership is making the
dreams of others come true - The Dream Manager by
Matthew Kelly is a secular story about a company that decided to help
its employees identify and realize their dreams. Their goal was to
reduce turnover and increase corporate profits. I'm sure Matthew is a
Christian because His book illustrates a great truth in the Bible.
The Dream Manager is on our
recommended reading list.
Servants don't dream
- We continually encourage people to move up from servants to "friend"
of God. Most of us come from a theological perspective that places great
value on being God's servant. Charismatic Christians, in particular, use
language that limits us to do only what the Holy Spirit guides us to do.
I'm not describing that as bad. I want to suggest it's a legitimate
stage of our spiritual development. Coupled with that belief is what all
the servants are subservient to. As a pew-person and a pastor I believed
the most important work for Christians was the great commission
(reaching the lost) and I believed that growing and planting local
churches was the way to accomplish evangelism. With that "apostolic"
theology in mind I placed no value on my own personal desires and
focused my life on the joy of "serving" God and His people by growing my
church - sounds pretty good, huh?
Beyond "Servant"
- Here's the problem. Without a personal dream, you're just an
"employee" or a "servant." You're not relationally plugged in.
"Hireling" is the same term with a connotation for the resulting level
of loyalty to the company (or the Kingdom). Listen to Jesus' answer to
the disciples request, "Lord, increase our faith." They are asking Jesus
to help them take the next step. First He suggests the power that
resides within them for even the smallest amount of faith. It's the
power to exercise initiative!... something a servant would never do -
it's at least presumption, maybe rebellion!
6 "If
your faith were only the size of a mustard seed," Jesus answered,
"it would be large enough to uproot that mulberry tree over there
and send it hurtling into the sea! Your command would bring
immediate results! Luke 17:6
TLB
Next, Jesus describes what being a perfect servant
leads to... nothing!
7-9
When a servant comes in from plowing or taking care of sheep, he
doesn't just sit down and eat, but first prepares his master's meal
and serves him his supper before he eats his own. And he is not even
thanked, for he is merely doing what he is supposed to do. 10 Just
so, if you merely obey me, you should not consider yourselves worthy
of praise. For you have simply done your duty!" Luke 17:6-10 TLB
"You should not consider yourself worthy of
praise." I used to preach that we should be willing and humble servants
with no expectation of praise; no sense of worthiness. I was wrong... I
misrepresented who God really is. He loves to reward, honor and praise
his people for doing things that please Him (see list of verses below).
The point of this verse is that "servant" is not what pleases God!
Servants don't share His dream. They won't give themselves permission to
look into their own desires and find the will of God. They just do what
they are told, nothing more. They don't share God's heart. The Lord is
inviting us to have dreams and find the connection between our heart's
desires and His. That's when you will be motivated to create and
initiate something in the Kingdom that warrants increase... 30, 60, and
100-fold. One of my greatest thrills is to hear the voice of God saying,
"Well done John." If I heard, "You have simply done your duty," it would
be a huge disappointment.
A Church Full of Servants
- I attended a church for 16 years and pastored two churches for an
additional 13 years where we believed evangelism was the top priority
and the local church was the primary vehicle to accomplish that end.
Individuals were expected to lay down their lives for those objectives.
The result... we laid down our lives and set our heart's desires on the
church and its growth. Some people didn't make it because they couldn't
connect with a dream that wasn't their own. Others so idolized the
pulpit ministry they would compete for the leadership of the church and
became difficult for the pastor to work with! Elders under this system
were invariably Kings (competitive and called to the marketplace) that
lined up for the next opportunity to preach... and loved to impose their
own will and vision on the pastor's vision for the church. They had
misplaced their own personal dream and used the church as a substitute.
Our theology placed no value on the marketplace and no value on
personal dreams. All that was left was the church and the pulpit.
What's your dream? How can
I help you take the next step? - What if we changed our
theology to put a value on the dream of each person in our congregation
or company? What would that look like? For starters, pastors, managers,
and people would at least try to ask the question, "What's your dream?"
Leaders would serve others by helping identify those dreams and
encouraging goals to make them come true. Can you see how putting
evangelism second creates an individual that will naturally be more
evangelistic?... because he or she is happy, fulfilled, motivated,
productive, excited and has something left to give (both financially and
spiritually). Instead of placing all our energy serving an introverted
institution (church or company), we actually "go into all the world"
pursuing those dreams (and the church or company grows as a byproduct of
real maturity in the people).
The second thing that happens when people start to
value their dream or heart's desire is that they place a value on the
dream of the pastor or manager that leads their church or company (Right
now pastors are often afraid to articulate their own dream for the
church for fear it won't get through the committee). If leaders teach us
to value our dreams, we will learn to value the dream of the leader...
That's when churches and companies really shift into another level of
productivity and blessing - when leaders are free to lead; when there is
no discord in the camp. The presence and the blessing of God are drawn
toward harmony... And harmony is finding the synergism between two
dreams in two people instead of mandating that everyone share the same
dream.
How
good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity!
It is like precious oil poured on the head, running down on the
beard,
running down on Aaron's beard, down upon the collar of his robes.
It is as if the dew of Hermon were falling on Mount Zion.
For there the LORD bestows his blessing, even life forevermore. Ps
133 NIV
The real goal of the church (or a corporation) is
to equip the saints. We do that by releasing their dreams; allowing them
to explore the desire of their heart. We end up releasing Kings that
change the world... then we have to graduate them into the work of
expanding the Kingdom throughout the earth. They become "sent ones" and
fulfill the apostolic mandate to reach out to the marketplace. They each
give birth to one of God's dreams. Similarly, a company can also have an
apostolic call to equip its people to expand the Kingdom. We are not
losing people by "releasing Kings" - we're gaining their loyalty and
sharing their dreams. Friends have a relationship. Covenant is not just
a contract; it's love.
(God praises, delights in, honors, and rejoices
over people that please him: Mt 25:21, Jn 5:44, 12:43, 1Cor 4:5, 1Pet
1:7, 1Sam 2:20, Ps 149:4, Ps 22:8, Prov 11:20, Isa 62:4-5, Jer 32:41)
Life is an adventure. People are a blessing.
God is amazing. We're winning.